Self Love Is The Best Love

I too often see women chasing no good men or in a relationship with no good men but that's not the only problem, the problem is that they don't see it themselves. So many women are in bad relationships WHY? Because they are afraid to be alone, low self esteem and they don't know their worth. Ladies don't you know how precious you are? You are fearfully and wonderfully made (Psalm 139:14). What I suggest you do especially young women is stop watching reality TV, looking up to these pseudo realty women and pick up a bible, everything you need to know about self love and relationships are in the bible not on TV! Let me go ahead and tell you what God says about you, how women should be treated and hopefully you can save yourself from heartache and pain you may endure if you haven't already, and don't worry if you have, because I'm sure you are stronger from it like myself. Self love is the best love! (Song 4:7)  If you know me personally you hear me say that often and it is true. If you can't love yourself how do you expect someone else to love you?! Self love isn't posting a half naked picture on social media boasting about all the haters you have, to me that shows how low your self esteem truly is! A woman who has self love has confidence in the way she carries herself, the way she talks, acts, dresses, walks and interacts with others. (Proverbs 31). How you treat yourself is how someone is going to treat you. If you look like your on sale don't get upset if a man asks how much, if you walk around like trash don't get upset if a man treats you like trash then later post statues on how men aren't ish!!! You did that! Listen, It's totally OK to love your body and wanting to flaunt it but there is a classy way to do it! (1 Timothy 2:9) If you want a Godly man you must act like a Godly woman. (1 Peter 3:3-4). The bible says in Proverbs 18:22 "He hath finds a wife finds a good thing and obtains favor from the lord" HE WHO FINDS WIFE not SHE WHO FINDS HUSBAND. Why are women chasing men that don't want to be caught!? You can let him drive your car, give him money, sleep with you and he will tell you he still not ready for a relationship. Ladies stop trying to buy a mans love because you can't buy what's not on sale. Love cannot be bought, love can be developed. (1Corinthians 13:4-8) I see women waiting on men to be ready for a relationship and will have sexual relations with him as he is doing the same with other women, don't you know every time you lay with him you are laying with every women he slept with demons not only that but you give apart of yourself away each man you lay with (that's a whole other blog though) . A man will pursue you and go out of his way to prove to you why you should be his woman! Let him! If you are waiting around for a man to have a relationship with you, girl you gonna be waiting forever. Save yourself, Chase Jesus not a man. It comes natural for a woman to want to be pursued and natural for a man to want to pursue, call me old fashion but I believe it should be that way. Ladies you are so  beautiful, so precious and deserve nothing but the best. While God works on your husband let him work on you too. Focus on your goals and before you know it your husband will have found you. Are you that woman who is in a relationship that is draining you, causing you pain but you cant leave because you love him so much!? Are you sure its love that keeping you or is that sexual soul tie you created? When you create an unnatural soul tie it is harder to break away. Some women are having sex to keep the man they are with and know deep down it isn't right, but because they are afraid to be alone they let it continue. Stop it! Are you worth the heartache and pain or are you worth Gods best? Uuummm I'll take Gods best for Eternity please! Girl, being alone is not a bad thing and it wont be forever, its all in Gods timing like I discussed in my last blog  www.shauniiii.blogspot.com  Wait on God to give you a relationship you deserve and let go of that relationship that is tearing you down emotionally and physically. (psalm 37:3-4) Every woman deserves the best and if you think you don't I need you to email as soon as possible. This blog is to help whoever needs it, encourage and remind you that you are Gods daughter and he wants nothing but the best for you and you deserve it. My favorite story in the bible is the book of Ruth, if you have not read it giiiirl go read it. How boaz treats Ruth is how a man should treat you. Boaz was diligent, friendly, merciful,GODLY, kind, faithful etc., he was a good man and you deserve a good man also. Save yourself now and get out of what God has been trying to get you out of. Ladies I love you and I hope I helped you, I want every woman to be treated right and with the up most respect. Self Love Is The Best Love. God Bless Yooooou!! IG: @Shauntemarie_ Email: Selfloveshaunii@gmail.com